Have you been waiting for your soulmate for years and years now? Wondering if you even have a soulmate? Are you asking yourself when will you meet the one for you? That question can be hard to answer because the path to a soulmate is different for everyone. But I can definitely tell you what you might be doing to sabotage your search. Here are seven things you need to let go of right now if you want to meet your soulmate sooner rather than later.
1. Your Checklist
You don’t need to abandon your checklist entirely; you just need to make is less rigid. Ask anyone who’s with their soulmate if the Universe brought them exactly what they asked for. Most likely they’ll tell you they never thought they’d “end up with someone like them.” But they did, and they’re happy. A soulmate calls to your soul, and you never know when that’s going to happen. Therefore, you need to be open to everyone—even those people who don’t resemble what’s on your checklist.
2. The Search
Many relationship experts will tell you that the best way to find your soulmate is to quit searching for them. This sounds counterintuitive, but it’s absolutely correct. That’s because the word “searching” suggests that something is missing from your life. However, being single doesn’t make you incomplete—you have everything you need within yourself. It may not always feel like it, but you have the ability to make yourself happy, push your dreams forward, and function as a whole being right now—with or without a soulmate. So, stop searching for your soulmate! Your heart will let you know when you’ve found them.
3. The Missing Piece
We’ve just established that you are a whole person, and you can make yourself happy. This means you don’t need someone to complete you—your missing piece. You don’t need someone to improve your life, and if that’s what you’re looking for, that’s a bad way to start a relationship! A soulmate cannot complete you and they cannot make your situation better or “turn your frown upside down.” That responsibility rests on you.
4. The Willingness to Change too Much
If you ever blame yourself for a breakup, wondering what’s wrong with you, you’re committing a very common mistake. You shouldn’t have to change yourself too much to find your soulmate! You may even be attracting the wrong people because you are not being your authentic self. First, find yourself before you can find your soulmate.
5. The Idea of Limits
People are always limiting themselves. When it comes to love, they may say they are too old for it, they’ve been single too long or they’ve failed at too many relationships. The truth is that the only limits you have when it comes to love are the ones you give yourself—so don’t give yourself any.
6. The Idea of the Right Time
People often wait for “the right time” to find their soulmates. They say they’ll start looking after they reach a certain point in their career or buy a house, for example. Perhaps your next few months are very busy or your health is not where you’d like it to be. This thinking is flawed because you can never really prepare yourself for love. There is never really a right time for anything in life because life simply doesn’t work that way. And, the longer you wait to find your soulmate, the more time you don’t get to spend with them.
7. Keeping Track
When you’re in a relationship, do you keep track of what you give and what you get in return? If you’re happy, you don’t need to keep track. Soulmates give and take without keeping score, and there are times when one will give more than the other depending on what each of them is going through. If you’re not okay with that, then perhaps you’re not ready for a soulmate.
Being in love is a life experience that everyone deserves. Whether you’re looking for your soulmate or wondering how to keep the romantic fires burning in your relationship, a love psychic can help. They want to see you happy and a psychic love reading is all you need to find or keep the love that is meant for you.